Love language - Naturally Brown Woman

The Love Language® Quiz

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1. How do you describe yourself?(Required)

I am an adult.

I am a teenager.

I am taking the quiz for my child.

2. How do you describe yourself?(Required)

I am in a relationship.

I am single.

2. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to spend one-on-one time with people.

I feel loved when someone gives practical help to me.

2. What is the age of your child?(Required)

9-12

8 or younger

3. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I receive a loving note/text/email for no special reason from my loved one.

My partner and I hug.

3. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

Someone I love sends me a loving note/text/email for no special reason.

I hug someone I love.

3. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel loved when someone I’m close to puts an arm around me.

Feel loved when I receive a gift from someone I’m close to.

3. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Give me a hug!

You are terrific!

4. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I can spend alone time with my partner - just the two of us.

My partner does something practical to help me out.

4. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

Gifts are symbols of love that are important to me.

I feel loved when people affirm me.

4. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear(Required)

I've got a special birthday present for you!

I'll help you with your project.

5. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner gives me a little gift as a token of our love for each other.

I get to spend uninterrupted leisure time with my partner.

5. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to spend time with friends and family.

I like to receive little gifts from friends and family.

5. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Let's go to a movie.

Give me a high-five!

6. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner unexpectedly does something for me like filling my car or doing the laundry.

My partner and I touch.

6. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

Words of acceptance mean a lot to me.

I know someone loves me when he or she helps me.

6. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

You are so smart!

Have you made your Christmas list?

7. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner puts their arm around me when we’re in public.

My partner surprises me with a gift.

7. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to receive affirming notes and texts.

I like to be hugged.

7. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Would you help me cook dinner?

I like going to fun places with you!

8. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I’m around my partner, even if we’re not really doing anything.

I hold hands with my partner.

8. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like being with and doing activities with friends and family.

I like it when kind words are spoken to me.

8. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Give me a kiss!

You are #1!

9. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner gives me a gift.

I hear “I love you” from my partner.

9. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

What someone does affects me more than what he or she says.

Hugs make me feel connected and valued.

9. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

I've got a surprise for you.

We can make something really cool.

10. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I sit close to my partner.

I am complimented by my loved one for no apparent reason.

10. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I value praise and avoid criticism.

Several small gifts mean more to me than one large gift.

10. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Let's watch TV together!

Tag, you're it!

11. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I get the chance to just “hang out” with my partner.

I unexpectedly get small gifts from my partner.

11. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel close to someone when we are talking or doing something together.

I feel closer to friends or family when they touch me often.

11. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

You did a great job!

You've earned a special surprise!

12. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I hear my partner tell me, “I’m proud of you.”

My partner helps me with a task.

12. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I appreciate when people compliment my achievements.

I know people love me when they do things for me that they don’t enjoy doing.

12. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

You can invite your friends.

Let's go to your favorite restaurant.

13. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I get to do things with my partner.

I hear supportive words from my partner.

13. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like when my friends and family greet me with a hug.

I like it when people listen to me and show genuine interest in what I’m saying.

13. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

I'm going to give you a big hug!

You are an awesome kid!

14. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner does things for me instead of just talking about doing nice things.

I feel connected to my partner through a hug.

14. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel loved when friends and family help me with jobs or projects.

I really enjoy receiving gifts from friends and family.

14. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

I made your favorite food.

I made your favorite food. I checked your homework, and it looks great!

15. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I hear praise from my partner.

My partner gives me something that shows they were really thinking about me.

15. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I enjoy when people compliment my appearance.

I feel loved when people take time to understand my feelings.

15. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

You are fun to hang out with!

I'll race you!

16. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I’m able to just be around my partner.

I get a back rub or massage from my partner.

16. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel secure when someone close to me is touching me.

Acts of service make me feel loved.

16. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Wow! You did it!

Check under your bed for a special present!

17. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner reacts positively to something I’ve accomplished.

My partner does something for me that I know they don’t particularly enjoy.

17. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I appreciate the many little things that people do for me.

I value gifts that people make for me.

17. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Would you like for me to scratch your back?

You can do it! Don't give up!

18. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner and I kiss frequently.

I sense my partner is showing interest in the things I care about.

18. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I really enjoy the experience of one-on-one, undivided attention.

I really enjoy it when someone does some act of service for me.

18. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

What would you like for your birthday?

We can pick up your friend on the way to the movie.

19. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner works on special projects with me that I have to complete.

My partner gives me an exciting gift.

19. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel loved when people touch me.

I feel loved when people do things to help me.

19. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

I always like doing stuff with you.

You are so huggable!

20. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I’m complimented by my partner on my appearance.

My partner takes the time to listen to me and really understand my feelings.

20. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

For my birthday, I feel loved when I receive a gift.

For my birthday, I feel loved when someone speaks meaningful words to me.

20. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

How did you know how to do that? You are brilliant!

I can't wait to give you your present!

21. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner and I share non-sexual touch in public.

My partner offers to run errands for me.

21. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I know someone is thinking of me when he or she gives me a gift.

I feel loved when someone helps me with my chores.

21. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

Don't worry! I'll pick you up on time!

Let's spend the day doing whatever you want to do!

22. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner does a bit more than their normal share of the responsibilities we share (around the house, work-related, etc).

I get a gift that I know my partner put thought into choosing.

22. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to go places with people I’m close to.

When I like someone, I make contact with the person (hug, shove, high five, etc.).

22. Ask the child which statement they would prefer to hear.(Required)

I'll help you with your project.

Give me a high-five!

23. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner doesn’t check their phone while we’re talking.

My partner goes out of their way to do something that relieves pressure on me.

23. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I appreciate it when someone listens patiently and doesn’t interrupt me.

I appreciate it when someone remembers special days with a gift.

24. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I can look forward to a holiday because of a gift I anticipate receiving.

I hear the words, “I appreciate you” from my partner.

24. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like knowing that people are concerned enough to help with my daily tasks.

I enjoy full-day adventures or trips with someone close to me.

25. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner brings me a little gift after they've been traveling without me.

My partner takes care of something I’m responsible to do but I feel too stressed to do at the time.

25. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

Getting a kiss from a parent or older relative makes me feel loved.

Receiving a gift for no special reason from a parent or older relative makes me feel loved.

26. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner doesn’t interrupt me while I’m talking.

Gift giving is an important part of our relationship.

26. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to be told that I’m appreciated.

I like for people to look at me when we’re talking.

27. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner helps me out when they know I’m already tired.

I get to go somewhere while spending time with my partner.

27. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I like to sit close to people I enjoy being with.

I appreciate when someone tells me how attractive I am.

28. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner and I are physically intimate.

My partner gives me a little gift that they picked up in the course of their normal day.

28. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

Gifts from people I’m close to are always special to me.

I feel good when someone I’m close to touches me.

29. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner says something encouraging to me.

I get to spend time in a shared activity or hobby with my partner.

29. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I feel loved when someone enthusiastically does some task I’ve requested.

I feel loved when I’m told how much I’m appreciated.

30. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner surprises me with a small token of their appreciation.

My partner and I touch a lot during the normal course of the day.

30. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I need to be touched every day.

I need words of affirmation every day.

31. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner helps me out - especially if I know they’re already busy.

I hear my partner specifically tell me, “I appreciate you.”

31. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I really enjoy hanging out with people close to me.

I like to be hugged.

32. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

My partner and I embrace after we’ve been apart for a while.

I hear my partner say how much I mean to them.

32. Which statement fits you better?(Required)

I really enjoy hanging out with people close to me.

I like to be hugged.

I really enjoy hanging out with people close to me.

I like to be hugged.

I really enjoy hanging out with people close to me.

I feel loved when people affirm me.

33. It’s more meaningful to me when…(Required)

I receive a loving note/text/email for no special reason from my loved one.

My partner gives me a little gift as a token of our love for each other.

My partner unexpectedly does something for me like filling my car or doing the laundry.